March, 21 (17:28)
How to Make Your Boyfriends Loves You More?
1. Be Miss Universe. Go shopping, spa or massaging and pamper yourself at least once a month. Be the most confidence, beautiful and smart among of all his exes. Some once said for me, before you could love someone other than family (which I specially mean to your boyfriend) you must love yourselves first. Love your hair, your appearance, even your body and then you can love him.
2. Be confidence. What attract guys the most other than sex appeal is the aura that the girls possesses. Some might think the girls with great aura has a big chance to become the queen control and the-must-have-to-avoid-women. Well, he is a big loser. They might be has some ego to protect, but the smart men never been controlled by their ego.
3. Be understanding. It is true that girls need someone to lean on when they were distress or upset. So do guys. When they say, they need to be alone, you don’t have to be so obedient. They need someone to hear their heart screaming too, like you do. Comfort him, and tell him…”it’s allright, it is not your fault,” or “You still got me, don’t you?”. Well, a small and tender hug could be a cure too, you know.
4. Be a dream wives. One of the ways to makes guys love you much more is through their stomach. Learn to cook his favourite dishes could be a good start. It’s okay if you didn’t do well, but at least you’ve tried to win his heart.
5. Be a good friend. It’s can’t be denied other than family members and girlfriends, friends also play important roles in our lifes. Who said a girlfriend cannot be a good friend to their partner? Do what the friends always do when they are together. Makes a joke, laughing and arguing. You know him better than anyone else do, right?
Good luck, baby!
How To Deal With Hot Tempered Boyfriend?
Hello, ladies! I have to admit that, my boyfriend has a tempered. I am not such a nice and high patience level that just say ‘It’s okay’ everytime we arguing. I have my own tempered too, but not as bad as him, honestly. Here some tips that I use to handle the situation for the pass 3 years.
1. Do say whatever he wants to hear. He don’t wants you to be the one who put up white flag each and everytime both of you arguing even if it just a small matter. No matter how tempered they are, they will not ever let you to feel upset the whole week because of him. Remember, guys has a high ego. If they could not cherished their girl then they don’t deserve to call themselves as a guy (or gentlemen).
2. Use girl’s power. Girls well-known for their ability to make guys hear each words that they want to say. How? Girls are soft-hearted. No matter how harsh the words they said to you (I mean without intention), guys always bow down to a soft and smooth voices of girls. If you know well about their temper but still endure with that, you can try begging for apologize (if you are the one in fault),or seduce him ( not sexually, but try to cheers him with all memories that you has created together) but don’t ever try to change the topics until your conversation is not in danger zone.
3. Your tears are valuable. Tell me, what is the magic that guys fear the most? It is tears. Yes, your tears can change the world even his world. Make sure you’re not overreacting and don’t put a drama on it. Tears has the magic to blow over his ego. Make it natural, baby. Guys hate drama queen!
The rest is depends on you. Yeah, I used to think that being a good and tolerate girlfriend is always the right thing to do but the truth is you need the space to voice out your words and he needs to listen to you. Eventhough he with his temper, you still can change that bad things of him. With love. Communication is the most important things in a relationship. So, use all means to communicate and express your feelings to him, everything gonna be alright. Good luck bonita!
April 25, 2011 (02:47)
How to ensure you choose the right boyfriend?
Hi, ladies! It’s feel good that I can write again. Today, let’s talk about how to ensure that you’re not fall into the right man. Most of girls/women were having a problem in their relationships because they chose the wrong guys to be with. I am not expert in this topics too but the least that I can do is sharing. That what most of besties do right?
1. Get to know him first before start dating him. Yeah, you saw him coming out of BMW and wearing a black Gucci sunglasses and wearing a nice clean shirts on his body. You fall for the first sight and you will never say no if he come to you asking you out. I, myself probably do the same thing but we need to practice self control. Here we need to know his background first, and his financial source too. Well, who know he might be a drug dealer.
2. Never say yes for the first time. He asking you out, and your heart is floating in the air but remember he might have a bad intention to you. So, don’t say yes when he ask you out for the first time. If he trying for the second time, then he might be sincerely to know you better, but still! You need to be aware. If he never ask for the second time, don’t give up ladies! Maybe he was hurt after being rejected.
Well, that’s only two…I will update more next time. Stay chill ladies! Adios!
October 3rd, 2011 (16:42)
How to Maintain Your Long-Distance Relationship?
Ola Chica! It’s good to write again. I love to talk and write. Well, I can say that it is my obsessions. This time let’s talk about the long distance relationship (LDR). I’ve admit, I’m in the position of LDR too. I know it is not so easy to maintain your LDR as you might face a lot of obstacles, but stay cool. I’ve been in relationship for about 3 years (Not so long, but still so challenges) and a girlfriend whose her boyfriend studied at United Kingdom(UK). Actually, a lot of friends of mine face the problems in LDR as they can’t cope with the situation so well and at the end, they end the relationship. Let’s practice all of ways below to make our partners stay besides us:
1) Trust him. I bet all of you did know that trust is the most important things in a relationship. Always easier said than done. When he is not with you, you will started to imagine that they going out with other girls out there. When he is nowhere you know, there are chicks with him. You will start to doubt him and start a fight and…end up with breaking up. All you have to do is put a trust to him whenever he is not beside you. Just say “I trust in you. I believe you will not betray my trust.” By saying that magic word, he will be hesitated to cheat on you because you trust him so much.
2) Practice Good Morning and Good Night Call. Guys would never wants their girlfriend clinging all the times because they wish to have their own free time (of course without you and you hate it. I know.) but it doesn’t hurt them if you call or text every morning and night just to say you love them and sending a text kisses. That way, he know that every morning and night, the first person that you remember is him.
3) Send love gift at least once. You might run out of budget sometimes but why don’t you prepare an affordable gift that does not look cheap (better if it is significant and has deeper meanings than it’s look). You also can try to give hand-made gift such as handkerchief that you knit by your own or biscuits that you bake or perhaps pillowcase with your name on it. If you can show your love in a small things, he will appreciate everything that means to him because all of that stuffs reminds him of you.
4) Always be ‘besides’ him even if he is thousand miles away. What I am trying to say is, whenever he felt down and tell you about his problems then tell him that you always besides him and ready to be his good listener and advisor. Sometimes you might feel that he is selfish and only bother about his own feelings but not yours. Always keep in mind that he only have you and you want him to think that way, you should be prepared physically and mentally. Try to understand his problem even all you can do is just listening.
Actually there is a lot of ways depends on yourself. Think positive and mature in making your decisions. Relationship alone has a lot of issues but I believe you can handle it well if you do really wish to maintain your LDR. In the other if you keep thinking bad of him, it does not brings any good in your relationships. You gotta to work super hard if you love him otherwise think of finding someone else. The new one is not always better. Best of lucks chica! XOXOXO
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